you always end up with the one you were meant to be with

I remember one time when my girl friend and I were discussing relationships. We were wondering why it’s so hard to get involved with someone, even if it’s someone we really like. Too many broken promises from the past has made us wary of every relationship we come across. The question is, “Should I go for it?”

She said yes.

I asked her why. “What if it doesn’t work out? We’d only be wasting our time.”

they fight like cats...

She explained it to me this way. “If you were not meant for each other, then you would never end up with him. Date him. Commit to him. If it doesn’t work out, you will break up and move on. We’re here to comfort you if get a broken heart. We’ll party and meet other guys.”

“Okay…” I was beginning to see her point.

She continued, “But if heĀ were meant for you, then you’d never know unless you give it a try. You would’ve lost him. Given him up without a fight.”

There are battles you’ll win, there are battles you’ll lose. But if you don’t fight at all, you’ve already lost, not by default, but through your own fault.

Sometimes, there will be detours. Sometimes, there will be mistakes. But if it’s for you, it will find its way home. And so will you.

after a few seconds, they're sweet again.

You always end up with the one you were meant to be with.


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